A man NOTHING like my H was.
I like men with common sense, the ability to problem solve alone & with a partners.

One who knows how to do things without having their hand held (dislike helpless men)

One who is strong enough to open the jar lids that I can't budge.

One who can be the provider if necessary but also willing to work as a team in providing.

I like a man who cares about keeping in shape & not just letting themselves go as they get older but also not vain about it.

Specific looks can't really pin point because what attracts me would be their whole way about them not any specific attribute.

Definitely REAL self-confidence not faking it with bragging about themselves. Actions speak louder than words.