Hi,

It was easier to find a forum for English speakers, sorry for bad language skills.
I haven't found yet a dedicated forum/website for virgins, but these psychology forums have threads where I can find similar people.

I'm 28, male. I have never had a girlfriend. I am not ugly, but I am skinny, weaker than many women. I can not find my partner on dating websites, because there are not many registered users near my place. When I was younger, I loved to chat online with people I just first met, but nowadays those chat rooms are empty. That was about, why I am not looking for relationship online.

I choose my friends, they are all women. People rarely try to befriend me, I don't mind talking to strangers, I have no problem making new friend, if she accepts me. Now I don't have any friend for reasons. If you are still reading this, let me tell you, this post is not about being a virgin or not. I have no reasons to think that losing virginity should be a higher priority thing in my life. When I meet someone, I want to know about her first, sleeping with her at the first night is no no, not that I have experience to say this, but oh well.

I have no ideal woman. I like people being themselves. Sometimes I met people, who expect from men to be more manly. I like being myself, others' expectations are often high. If I don't expect anything from others, it's easier to find a good person, even with her weaknesses. About women' beauty: I often dream about average looking women, in the real life I don't like beauties. I would prefer if one day I could meet someone who doesn't have abundant experience with men, not necessary zero experience.

I like sitting in a silent room, helps me thinking, but I am also talkative if there is a common topic I can talk with others about. It's kinda hard to approach women. I want to know them as a friend, I guess not every men do this at me age. But I'm also looking for relationship. But I don't want to turn friends to lovers, these are separate things. Not that any of my friends showed interest in me, to be their boyfriend. I like girly talks, they are looking me like o.o when I show a slight interest about their topics.

I read that I don't have to hide that I'm single. If people ask me about being single or not, I answer honestly, even if they laugh, I don't like that. Being a single. Why. People call me short tempered, but I would never hurt anyone, I am the type of man who tries to stay away from fights. I just don't like ignorance, and I often tell this fact to anyone. I know no hierarchy, boss and coworker, popular or lonely, every people are alike for me. Not that weaker people accept help from me.

I need someone to talk about these. That's why I will post these on every forum I can find, I hope the Internet is ready for this.