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Old Apr 23, 2016, 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Calico_91 View Post
On second thought, report her. I was going to say just let it go since she seemed to have apologized, but I'm afraid that the behavior can be a sign of something dangerous.

She reminds me of the therapist who sexually abused me. This guy had pulled crap like that before. I had no idea. When I talked about him during inpatient group therapy without even saying his name, another gal went into complete PTSD meltdown mode. She asked me if it was "Pervert Social Worker Man" (probably can't legally say his name on here). I said "OMG! YES!"

Well what ended up happening is that he got a slap on the wrist for being inappropriate with her and simply sent him to another campus of the same organization.

When I was talking about it in IOP saying his name, the psych nurse probationer said "Oh my God. Pervert Social Worker Man is actually working with clients?" He was in instructor for an undergrad class and he was talking about alternative medicine. He demonstrated "reiki" on her and subtley felt her up. She began to cry. He told her that she needs therapy because she has issues with men. She didn't report him because he threatened her.

He threatened to fudge my records and send me to a state mental hospital if I told what he did to me. He did the same to that girl who was in the hospital with me.

This person is a potential menace. =( I hope she's not doing this to actual clients.
She never apologized. She didn't say, "I'm sorry". Right after she attempted to kiss me and I said no, she said, "Okay, well we're still cool, right?" So no, there was no apology whatsoever. My task supervisor, who is also her supervisor, said the same thing. She said that this could be a sign that she has dangerous tendencies AND she will be working with children which makes this even worse.

The reason why I was so on the fence about letting this go was because I know she is struggling right now. But so am I. We all are.

And I'm glad I didn't let this go. When I was a child and was sexually abused, I couldn't do anything. Now I am older and I can and I WILL protect myself if someone comes on to me without my consent. She didn't even ask. It was pretty disgusting.

I am sorry that happened to you. It's frightening that he is still working with clients.
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