Yeah, I guess I'm expecting too much not having a lot of experience at this. I don't think I'm being too unreasonable - the women I messaged were between 35-50 years. They all seemed fairly accomplished although, with some, I was out of their age range (let's try anyway). Like I said I have mixed emotions because I don't know if I even want to get this active in the partnership area - I'm a loner. So why am I doing this - because I never have.