maybe it is because we feel undeserving or unworthy. maybe we just feel uneasy with others expressing their love and affection. maybe we fear the intimacy of the things that are said or fear that we will eventually be hurt by those we think are friends. who knows really. but for those that do find it hard, i think you should ask yourself why it is so hard to hear good things about yourselves. i think we all seek love and support here. so why is it that we are afraid of it at the same time?

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