His family all drink and my hubby is trying to quit, but he won't say no there. Then they all start arguing... Loudly and with a lot of spicy/inappropriate wording.
My feeling is this: I should be able to discuss this work my husband without it being repeated. I don't repeat things to my family that he says or does. And when I spoke to him about it, I said "um telling you me feelings in confidence" which he now days I didn't say!
I know it's his family, and I don't expect our life to be hidden from them, but I do expect to be able to share my feelings on things with him in confidence.
I don't dislike his family, and I truly love his mother, I just don't care for the drinking at parties.
Am I wrong to feel this way? I think he and I should be able to share feelings without them going out to the world.