well I can understand why it is eating you up. Making phone calls when your wife is not home, can be a very "dangerous game" I know you are being safe when you use calling cards, but this has got to stop.. Yes you should end it. And take it from the one who has done this, TELL YOUR SPOUSE. DO NOT LIE TO THEM.. if you still lvoe your wife, then she deserves that, even if you do not., a clean trutful break is the best way to go.

I hope you do get a clean break.

Ok, here goes round 2 of adivce
1. Commucaite with your spouse.. This is one thing I tried to get my ex to do, and he would not. Do not let something as beautiful as your love go down the drain, because you can not talk to each other.
2. Stop all of the online "Sex" stuff. get rid of anything you can not invlove your wife with. if you do not think she woudl be game for it, get rid of it.

I can understand about the "smallness" issue.. Trust me. Just be gentel, and try it whatever way you both like. THis is the hardest thing to talk about on the fourms...

any more qeustion and I will try to help as much as I can. ok


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- G.K. Chesterton
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