It's a lonely existence for sure. I'm 31 and still a virgin. But my case is mostly due to avoidance thanks to acute social phobia. I'm afraid of women my own age, and cannot relate to them. Plus I had unrealistic expectations and standards in my teens.
Still I can kind of relate. I'm not a very masculine guy either and have always been weak, emotionally and physically. I know there's a notion that it's shameful or pathetic for a guy to have no experience, but I say ignore people who think that. I agree with Trippin2.0, friends who turn into lovers can have very strong relationships, in fact that's always been my ideal dream. Too bad I can't even make friends.
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If only real life could be as beautiful as fiction...
Diagnosis: Social Anxiety Disorder, Depression, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, possible Autism Spectrum Disorder
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