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Old Apr 24, 2016, 12:05 PM
ladytiger ladytiger is offline
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Originally Posted by Patagonia View Post
I'm sorry for my grammar. My definition of a "partner" is equivalent to the person or object you're engaging sex with. I'm suggesting a conversation with whoever that is. Unless this is just casual sex.

Tantric sex is a lot more than loving yourself.

And I only suggested an OB Bec you were having pain issues. I really don't know one female that likes getting their cervix scraped!

Honestly you're coming off as very angry & frustrated. I'm sorry about that. I didn't mean to upset you.
Hope someone else can help you.
It's kinky play. Last night, I was able to relax telling myself to welcome the pleasure and not the pain. The guy I was playing with was helping me relax throughout the rest of the night my legs stayed open and I was blindfolded which helped too.

He fingered me which felt awesome, so yea it's a step.