My age range is 35-55 so I'm think I'm being realistic. I'm actually staying above 40 unless she says in her profile that she's willing to date a 60 yo. I don't want to limit myself too much because you never know who you're going to have chemistry with (I know this with my recent struggles). And since they're looking I'm assuming it's okay to communicate with them - nothing else you might end up being friends and that would be just fine with me.