The point I was making in my original post was that there are people that claim to want to be apart of our lives yet constantly exhibit behavior that proves otherwise. If you're someone who has pushed someone away with no ill intent then do as Ruari has done and attempt to make amends with that person and let them know the reasoning behind it. When people that do this never let the problem be known to the people they're pushing away it leads them to believe they enjoy playing games with them. Again, I would never say any and every person who has pushed someone away unintentionally is a bad person. Sometimes life and feelings get in the way.

TishaBuv made a mistake and owned up to that. Like I said, lust is such a powerful feeling it can override feelings of what's right and wrong. Serial cheating is where that line gets crossed. My ex cheated multiple times and continues to lie and say she never did it when there is so much evidence against her it's astonishing I ever questioned it. Then she enters my life again and tries to manipulate me again.

I just want to make sure people know that there are people out there who do these things. If you're like me and are spending day after day on a journey of self improvement these people are toxic to your progress and mental stability.