Kink involves a lot of power play. A lot of pre-negotiation so the dominant can understand you better, make better decisions according to what he sees & knows about you.
It can be a great place to explore yourself & your sexual nature. Also a place to get hurt.
Sorry to preach.
I hope it works out for you[emoji5]
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