Dear OP,
I wasnt exclusively refering to you post. I ment overall in the relationships and partners forums. I completely understand the need for ppl to vent about their relationships, but i do get very frusturated when post after post it becomes what an ahole/ crazy person someone SO is. Im glad you can acknowledge you have a problem. The next step is genuinely owning it as your problem and not as a reaction to the other's behavior. I was having a really bad day when i wrote that response. Reading back it does come off rather over the top. See we all vent. Lol. There is a point in there that is lost in my own issues tho... and that is you feel like you attract or end up with psychos.... maybe its time to consider 1. Are these woman normal seeming when you first meet then over time start acting crazy? If yes, then ask yourself how your behaviors may be effecting others. 2. If they are crazy from jump... Why are you attracted to bad behavior knowing where it leads down the road? Either way i just think you need to do some hard work exploring your own bad relationship patterns. Until you truly know yourself and what you want, there is no way to really have a good relationship even with the most level headed of woman.