yes,,, I will add that my husband was one of the most charming men ever.. he could charm the socks of you.. but... once married.. Yazza... I will never forget.. and yes I too was almost killed on occasion..

He went thru relationship after relationship like that... so it wasn't the "wife"... it was most definetly him.. he ruined.. many a life...

he was like a "time bomb" ticking..just always set to explode..