Hi Ladyrevan.

I too often wonder what motivates others to see me as interesting and worthwhile of their attention...and consequently used to spend the majority of my time alone persuing activities that didn''t involve other people. I do believe in some part that this was due to my trust issues and poor self image.

The thing is that we all want to be liked, and fear of rejection stops us sometimes from reaching out and making connections with others. But finding activities that involve like minded people was the key that helped me to become more social, and allow others into my world. I dont think I will ever be the 'Life of the Party'…but I now push myself to get involved and contribute…this in turn lets others know that I am approachable. Smiling at and complimenting others helps a great deal too….this lets them know that you approve of them and are open to getting to know them.