When you post... you get people's opinions... and sometimes they are hard to hear..I mean this with kindness.

yes, In my opinion you have a real problem going on here...
The swollen face and glands were classic for me... and my friends could tell... when binge/purge cycle..

and it is hard to work thru this on your own.. there is usually an underlying issue that is behind this...maybe the divorce/dad passing (I am sorry for both.)

The preoccupation with calories.. the 1.5 hour of workout.. your weight... that all sounds so familiar to me...

Sometimes T do not dwell on what you are doing with food right away.. because they are getting to know you and trying to figure out what is going on in your life that may be contributing to why you are doing this...

When screening for a T.. I asked.. have you worked with people that have an ED?? and I also went weekly to a nutritionist who specialized in working with people with an ED... she worked with me.. to cut down the exercising.. to keep a food diary.. complete with how I felt each and everytime I ate... why I ate that food..