wow.. this thread brings back so many memories.. I have been divorced for 23 years..

and yes... I so agree... if my ex-husband had learned to control his temper... I still would not have wanted to be with him

because of that belief..

I have worked with so many women.. that say the same thing.. easy to get into a relationship with abusive man.. absolute hell to get out..
They do not let go very easily... believe me...