Artchic, we can all aspire for better. Ask yourself, ''if someone can do this, why can't I?'' and no excuses! lol We live in a world of abundance, sure, we are not as skilled as every one of us in every field but with constant efforts come results. If you tried something and it doesn't seem to work, try something else. There is an abundance of things you can do to improve your socialization skills or any sphere of your life, tons of people that can help you. No one will do it for you but a lot will want to help you, though, it's undeniable. It's up to you to really want it and give it all, to obtain what you want. There are no mistakes, only learning experiences. Don't be afraid to fail, you have the potential to be just as good as anybody in social skills. Don't compare yourself to others, do all you can to improve, every day and I can guarantee you it will work. It worked for me, it worked for friends, it will work for you.