Although we use some role play in the bedroom, my partner enjoys telling about his sexual fantasy during sex. We could be physically engaging with each other as he tells me what he'd like to watch another man or woman do to me and I will ask him what ' they ' are going to do next with me. His fantasy maybe to see me with someone else but it is strictly a fantasy, but the discussion/exploration of it during sex is in itself enough to satisfy.

Just be honest but respectful of your wife when you approach such a conversation and you may be pleasantly surprised by her response, good luck ��