I feel guilty sometimes when I text t on a wednesday to ask for a saturday appt, stuff like that. I'm always afraid I'm taking a time away from somebody else by asking so last-minute. Or like I'm ruining her weekend by asking last minute like that. But I decided that she's a big girl, she's older than me for heaven's sake, she has the power to say "No, how about such-and-such day instead". I didn't used to take my shoes off, but she's always invited me to, and then one time a few months ago when it was raining she asked me to cuz she has light-colored carpet, so ever since that day I've been kicking them off as I walk in (I wear flip flops so easy to do). She usually doesn't wear shoes now that she works out of her home. It's more comfortable for me. Sometimes we sit on the floor, too. I really like the relaxed closeness of those sessions.