I would find it hard to trust an online T. I can tell a lot from my T's body language just as she can from mine. How did you find this T? Did someone recommend her?

I do agree with stopdog on this one. I don't like that my T always reassures me that she's not going anywhere. She may believe that, but no one knows what the future holds. She could move, get sick, or die. I told her that and she agreed with me, and changed her statement to something about having no intentions of leaving.

I think it's too soon to trust your new T. It takes time.