Lady Dragus

Before I start, I got into an interesting position the other day that may end the affair easily than I expected. The woman I'm having the affair with said she would understand if I broke up with her. Right out of the blue. So what does that tell me? It tells me that the affair isn't deeply rooted right now. There's still a chance that I can get out without hurting anyone if I follow your advice and just cut the sex right now.

Alright...

> 1. Commucaite with your spouse.. This is one thing I tried to get my ex to do, and he would not. Do not
> let something as beautiful as your love go down the drain, because you can not talk to each other.

The problem I'm having is that she is having a hard time communicating with me, which is better than not communicating I suppose. For example, we got into talking about fantasies two days ago. I told her mine (which is probably the fantasy that most men have) is having with with her and with another partner (IE: a threesome). This bothered her but she wasn't able to tell me until last night. She felt bothered that it was a fantasy that I wanted to live out. Of course I told her that it was just a fantasy. Then I asked about what kind of fantasies that she had and she wasn't able to come out with any. I was dissapointed, slightly, but what can I say? Is it enough for me to leave her? No. But still it was hard for her to communicate with me her displeasure.

> 2. Stop all of the online "Sex" stuff. get rid of anything you can not invlove your wife with. if you do not
> think she woudl be game for it, get rid of it.

I'll try my best. Speaking as a man, that may be a bit difficult, but I can do it.