My wife of 20-plus years started smoking MJ almost two years ago.
It didn't bother me at first when it was one joint in the evening to calm her anxiety and back pain. It has become an escape for her and now she is smoking at least 4 bowls a day. She hasn't had a job for over a year (barely looks for one) and is getting deeper and deeper into the "lifestyle". Different friends (stoners) who smoke for the "spiritual awakening". New age term for what we used to just call it 'getting high' back in high school.

When I point out her increase in use; she gets very agitated.
-- Bottom line, It bugs the **** out of me. She can't hold a job, can't make a decision; and becomes very lethargic. We are growing distant as she is becoming a very different person.... one that I don't like. Talking to her about this only ends in arguments..... I'm tired of fighting.

Not sure what to do next..............