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withit said:
So 'normal' men are not charming?

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I think many men who can turn on the charm are not abusive, controlling, abnormal, etc. Some men are simply charming, and it's a good thing! So don't be scared off, withit, just because your guy has some charm. But if there are other reasons to be scared off, consider them.