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Originally Posted by AllHeart
Yes, I did. My fear of discussing my feelings about and towards my t stemmed from my fear of rejection. One day, I just couldn't take it anymore. I broke down and sent my t an email and posed my thoughts in question form, like, "what if I love you?" T's email response was non-rejecting which made our first in person discussion hard (as opposed to super hard). It was also rewarding. And each conversation thereafter became easier and easier.
Find a way to bite the bullet. I know you have a great t so I'm sure whatever you tell him will be met with acceptance and gratitude.
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Thanks. Email might be a way I can actually communicate the words because I am completely unable to say it I think. I wish I knew for certain that that's how I really feel. He's away next week (great timing!) so I've got time to think it over at least.