Great post! Thank you! I will try those things!

We aren't really dating, per se. That's the thing, I don't have any definition, and I'm someone who needs lines drawn a little more clear. I know life isn't black and white and that this is sometimes really frustrating for someone. But I do feel like I'm in limbo right now, and I think at some point I'm going to need more defined boundaries. I don't know why I'm still blocked on social media, for example, and my brain wants to go to worst-case scenario. For my own self-worth, there are certain things I kinda need to ask. If that makes sense. I'm willing to go with the flow, but I can't drift in the wind all the time. It's just not how I work.