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Originally Posted by feralkittymom
I think you gain the emotional closeness, bit by bit, by processing the past. You build the bank of trust with each contact, each disclosure. You really haven't been with this T for that long. Can you let yourself observe the feeling without feeling pressure to articulate it? The fact that you experience it coming and disappearing suggests it's stirring some anxiety.
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You raise a valid point. It could be this isn't the right time to delve into these feelings. T said to me that the resistance will be there for a reason and it's fine to return to it another time. I was putting myself under some pressure to disclose because I worried about it getting in the way somehow.