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Old Apr 27, 2016, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom View Post
I think you gain the emotional closeness, bit by bit, by processing the past. You build the bank of trust with each contact, each disclosure. You really haven't been with this T for that long. Can you let yourself observe the feeling without feeling pressure to articulate it? The fact that you experience it coming and disappearing suggests it's stirring some anxiety.
You raise a valid point. It could be this isn't the right time to delve into these feelings. T said to me that the resistance will be there for a reason and it's fine to return to it another time. I was putting myself under some pressure to disclose because I worried about it getting in the way somehow.
Hugs from:
Bipolar Warrior, feralkittymom
Thanks for this!
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