I'm sorry to hear your feeling so upset, Artchic. The only thing I can say is, well, not everyone feels the way those guys do. Everyone's entitled to their own opinion. Some people are just more sensitive about expressing it to others; other people, not so much.

I'm not sure if you're still worked up, but if so, try taking some deep breaths, maybe trying journaling about it. You can also feel free to post about it some more. I know you're feeling ignored, but you're not, truly.

I'm sorry I don't have great advice for dealing with anger. When I get worked up, I have a hard time calming down again, too.