Personally, I hate the "too far" excuse. I realize an LDR isn't for everyone, but a lot of people think they're less likely succeed than a close proximity relationship. But I feel like if that were true, everyone would marry their first loves and live happily ever after, no?
Anyway, I agree. He was definitely giving you the run-around and making excuses when he slipped up. Clearly not worth your time. It's too bad he just couldn't be straightforward with you.
I'm glad you're feeling a little better. I can definitely see why you were upset.