Hello guys, I am sick of my mother always telling me that my boobs are becoming soft and sagging down because of not wearing a bra. It is making me feel like **** and boobs honestly sag down it is expected after the surgery I had to reduce them. What do I say to her to tell her I don't want her making those kind of comments because I feel it is not necessary and I feel quite upset over it. When I do everyone just says I am being sensitive well you would to if you were practically shamed into hating your boobs because your sister was reminding you how saggy they were before surgery. Why are women so ****ing shallow I was shamed into feeling bad and embarrassed of my own body that it became an obsession a paranoia. Then what started happening is I started saying bad things about it and then I felt ashamed and hated my own boobs to the point of cutting them off. I am starting to feel that way again even though they are smaller now and not saggy my mother is just a superficial ***** who needs to shut the **** up. All boobs sag and yours are worse then mine but I never pointed out that yours had fallen or made fun of your uterus poking out of your vagina(she told me her uterus had fallen and was slightly visible from her vaginal canal). I know these are words but it is essentially bullying and abuse because it makes me feel like **** for something I have no control of. Before people tell me to move out I can't I have no job or money so I can't and when I try to leave she says I can't take care of myself like she can which has resulted in my "dependence life trap". Where I feel so useless and can't take care of myself but then I have issues with trusting people and letting them help me out because I look stupid and weak.