I wish I had advise. I don't know what to do because it sounds like a he said she said sort of thing. If it possible for hubby to find a new job or is this a high paying, couldn't be found again type of position? It sounds complicated. I'm terrible with advise, you really shouldn't take any, even if I give it. Perhaps you could talk this over with a lawyer even? Not sure. It does sound like a terrible day and my heart goes out to you. (((hugs))))