No, you were pretty reassuring. Yes, it is good that I know that she is trying to weaken me by making me insecure. She often says that her mother gave her freedom and she does the same but I have never felt more restricted then I do now. I can't even do the goth looks I wanna do because she makes me feel bad about me wanting to shine my individuality and is trying to feed me insecurities by saying "Don't wear that lipstick people will stare". Like I am ment to be concerned what people think because to be honest it doesn't matter if I wear green lipstick or red lipstick or even no lipstick. If people wanna stare their gonna stare why put assumptions of what there thinking of me when they could be staring for a different reason then she is saying? Maybe I look like someone they know for all I know. Why make me self conscious of others thoughts when it is none of my business?