I don't know if there is a secret. Use sites where you have to pay. Usually better quality of men and bigger pool ( of course with exception just be careful) Men who use free sites aren't looking for serious.

I kept my profile short. Not much. Just what I do for a living, my level of education, marital status, kid, my hobbies, things i like as my interests. What I am looking for. Straight forward, my pics were casual selfies or the ones awhile ago I didn't have the kind of phone so somebody took of me casually, not formal pics, I am smiling or laughing on pics like I do in real life. I didn't make full length pics, just face and maybe upper body. I made sure my pics don't look better than real life as it would back fire lol

that's about it.

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