i didn't read the thread i apologize for my inconsideracy

love her because you want to, feelings come after, real love is GIVING love whether it is reciprocated or not. strive to achieve God's unconditional love for you, it is impossible, but if you have God's eternal love flowing into you it frees you from the fear of having your love thrown back in your face because there is no end to the love that you can give. Real love is GIVING, society's popular view of love only works in fairy tales, its not real, the "NEED" for someone else's love. the only love you need is God's love. Let God take care of the fundamental human need to be loved. Free yourself to love whomever you choose.