The point wasn't that you need to pay to get dates but that other sites provide better pool of men who are and can pay for matchmaking service. It does not make one desperate but rather more selective. Anything that is free isn't the same quality as when one pays for it. Guys that can't afford to pay or aren't willing to, are usually not looking for anything serious.

How is being on a hookup site is less desperate than paying for the one that has more men of substance?

No I am pretty sure it's not what Valentina meant

Also you've been asking for advice how to get more dates but when people give you legitimate advice you but only dismiss it but get angry and not very polite about it. Why are you asking if answers are making you mad? We are suggesting how to improve your situation and telling you what we did. I don't know why you get so defensive

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