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Originally Posted by divine1966
No I am pretty sure it's not what Valentina meant
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Then, what exactly did she mean? That I should lose weight? I'm pretty sensitive about my weight and have been ever since I gained some on Abilify. It took an extraordinary amount of time for me to learn to love myself regardless of what I weigh, and that I'm probably never again going to be the weight I was before taking Abilify.
I know she is taking the time out of her day to help, but she could have done so with more sensitivity.
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The point wasn't that you need to pay to get dates but that other sites provide better pool of men who are and can pay for matchmaking service. It does not make one desperate but rather more selective. Anything that is free isn't the same quality as when one pays for it. Guys that can't afford to pay or aren't willing to, are usually not looking for anything serious.
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Even if I did chalk up the money for Match again, I just don't see the point. I get even less attention on there than I do on OKCupid, and all of it from guys I'm not attracted to. I send out messages again and again, only to get no responses back. So yeah, I'm done getting my money sucked up by that site.