when i first started seeing my T i wore a short sleve shirt one day . all she did was asked if that was self inflicted and said i must have been in an unbearable amount of pain to do that to myself . it seemed very compassionate .and also when i had cut myself very badly when i was seeing her and was unable to hide it she did have me hospitalized for a short time but once again seemed to do it with no further humiliation then i already felt . i doubt it was anything more then wanting to confirm the situation