I think the center that you are now having successful treatment at needs to know. Maybe have a private meeting with the person who is directing you in the program. Just give them the facts & let them determine what they feel is the right thing to do. That way everything is upfront & known about.

I understand your concern & that is could very easily upset the progress you are making

Also, remember that she wasn't abandoned by those people who left her....she smothered them away with her neediness & they left for their own well being...hardly abandonment in those cases.

I had a lady like that I met one time in the hospital & lived in the same city. I had OD'ed & was in the medical hospital. She called me & told me that she had OD'ed. Lol I couldn't call 911 from the hospital phone to get her help. I had to call the operator & she said I shouldn't need 911 if I was in the hospital.....took a bit to get through to her that the help wasn't for me but for a lady that had contacted me.

I didn't need that kind of drama in my life when I was having a hard enough time dealing with my own crap.

It's best to keep your distance & make sure the place you are in treatment at knows you need to keep that distance if they do accept her in treatment there.