With all due respect, this seems to frame those married guys (or women in cases where this is the case) are evil people using someone for sex in a way that the person involved has no say, or choice. OR that the person involved in such detached situations for sex are in any way doing anything different. Pick someone attached and you should know what you're getting into. Expect to go into a fling like that and have some kind of commitment from either side and you're just fooling yourself. NO, the only cases where the married side is any worse is if they do it without letting the person they are having sex with know that they are attached/married. Which means this really doesn't apply here.

I fail to see how in a situation where someone is aware of what they are getting into (as clearly laid out by the title alone) they are a victim of anything.

It is merely common sense that if someone wants more than sexual attention and any kind of affection that is real, you wouldn't find already married or attached people to hook up with. Wait, let me rephrase. IT SHOULD be common sense.