She took it VERY seriously. But she also didn't push me to talk about it. For me its part of a pattern that extended through my whole childhood of my mom violating my bodily boundaries so we discussed it as part of that. Also I had obvious genital irritation and my mom lied to my dad and told him I went to the doctor and he said I was allergic to bubble bath stuff. I tried to.tell my dad but he ignored me. So we talked about how my mom obviously knew the things she did were wrong and took pains to.hide them and how my dad at first emotionally and then physically abandoned me and left me with my abusive mom.

It was a useful discussion and took away a lot of the shame I felt about it