Tough questions....I'm still looking for those answers myself. Almost bolted from the new therapists office about 3 times. I'm getting close to calling it quits right now. Think the new therapist is starting to burn out....just not sure if I should call it quits. He's using his "crutch" ( a corduroy blazer) all the time now, he's acted paranoid and defensive a couple times and another couple times he's been distracted. I know everyone has bad days but when is too many? I just don't want to place myself in a bad situation.