If this was the wife here asking for help then it would be okay to side with her. As it is, it isn't the wife it is a member of this community and she is hurting and lonely and asking for help. She didn't ask if what she was doing was wrong or immoral. Certainly the wives could be hurting and the men are jerks, but that isn't going to help her face her loneliness.

We don't know the wives or the men, we just know that this human came for help.

*life is a beautiful lie*