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What's worse is that I didn't really recognize it progressing to that level... it was my wife who pointed it out... and as far as I'm concerned, my wife is my world. I don't want anything to jepodise that... likewise, I have become uncomfortable with the notion of being alone with this woman... a kind of fear that she could go bat **** and throw accusations my way. Truth is, I would never do anything inappropriate... but the fear of being wrongly accused if I wasn't to do what she wanted, worries me... I know this is a fear that hasn't happened and is probably irrational... but it's there. Is part of the reason I suppose I have kept acknowledging her.... just writing this just feels so stupid and I hope that it doesn't offend anyone. I think people from both genders are capable of manipulation, so I am not trying to insinuate that she might do this because she's a woman.... I think it's more the opposite gender situ... and could easily be vise versa.
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There is nothing crazy about your thoughts about this. It is very possible since you don't know her that she could accuse you of doing something you haven't done. When you don't know a person & know whether you can REALLY TRUST them, it's wiser to use caution & protect yourself against anything that can possibly happen. She has already proved to be unstable you don't know what all that might entail farther than what it already is. Better safe than sorry.