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Originally Posted by divine1966
I wouldn't ask anything yet. Wait few days and see how he acts. Give it a bit time. See how it goes tomorrow. If you notice him not initiating and not contacting you or not expressing genuine interest and then trust your guts. But do give it few days. When you feel urges to contact him distract yourself right away but doing something going somewhere or even browsing on dating sites of talk here. Do not initiate right now
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Ugggghhh I already did. *hangs head* About an hour and fifteen minutes ago. It took him an hour to respond to my "Hey, what's up?" with, "Sleepy, playing Uno with friends. You?" I said, "Same, minus the Uno." I went on to say, "Was gonna call you for a sec, had a purpose. But it can wait.
" There was no reply. If he's hanging out with friends, I doubt he would reply.
The thing is that I think he's setting boundaries by not being so responsive, by not chatting every day. But that's not how I need boundaries set; it's too ambiguous. I feel like I'm guessing, and it makes me too anxious because I am afraid to guess incorrectly. I don't
need to talk to him everyday, don't
need him to respond to me immediately. But I
need to know that we are on the same page. That's all.
Yesterday, he was all about the Skype, flirty, sweet, all about it. Today though...