OH. I should also say that he was at a big SCA event this past weekend (before we were talking again), which he hasn't done in a while and he's back in the swing of his hobby with his crew. He's also started going to the gym. Before, he wasn't doing much but work and hanging out with his son on the weekends. He said that he's getting all kinds of new ideas on lots of different fronts: work, and etc. So I think his attention is more divided, yes. But it's not what that dark little part of my brain wants to tell me it is. And I'm okay, happy even, that his attention is divided in this way. This stuff is his thing.