Thanks for the comments. I think some of the concerning comments were taken out of context. I said "I don't need to talk everyday," after his response to the boundaries thing was basically kind of an "I don't know...sometimes I get tired. If I don't feel so much like chatting, I'll just let you know. Other that that..." This is something he's always told me, from day one. And I ignored it sometimes, and the night I really did and pushed pushed pushed is the night he said it wasn't going to work and stopped talking to me a few weeks ago. Keep in mind, we've been in communication since 2004-5; we know a little bit of each other, at least.