There is no need to choose between friends.
The woman you have been infatuated with ONLY missed you out of friendship. She considered you a friend, and you've cut the friendship off because you wanted more - but she doesn't know that. She just missed a friend and that is totally normal when you haven't seen a friend in a while and are unaware that the friendship is over.
The woman on the dating site has also agreed to friendship. If you meet then maybe more will develop, maybe not.
There is no need to make a choice BETWEEN them. One wants only friendship. The other wants friendship with a potential for more (possibly).
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