These actions, as described, are very inappropriate.

Gifts, unwarranted personal disclosures, touch, and any kind of 'flirting', ALL OF THIS is textbook boundary-breaking rules. She may not be flirting but this is messy, sloppy actions on her part .

She's not doing her job. You are not getting proper care. Period.

You should seek a different therapist and I would consider reporting you T.