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Originally Posted by PumpkinPieHead
I was in a relationship like this. I found him FREE counseling and he would not go. When he asked me to go, however, I did. From this experience, I would just cut him loose.
Sit him down and tell him that you're at the end of your rope but you cannot tolerate this any longer. Give him 30 days to get into the counselor's office or you're packing your bags.
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I would love to do this. Im trying to get up my courage to talk to him tonight. Im scared hes going to rage at me and miss my whole point. He gets very defensive and brings up things about what ive done that are fictional and name calls etc. Or he says things like "if you dont like me as I am you can just leave."
Im not even sure if itd be enough for him to start counseling at this point. Im feeling very resentful.