He read my diary without permission,if he had not done that I would have gone on ignoring him and had silly fantasies.it was like a few paragraphs about the perfect life,cottage etc,yes it is kind of wrong though but Im a total romantic and it felt at the time as if he was in love with me.
A lot of the diary was about my feelings for him though.
And yes you're right with the other two i never wrote any essays I just imagined it in my head and it casually in a very jokey way came up in conversation.